Culture, language and HIV
Growing up Japanese and shamed for being gay, Dai has become a confident resilient man today
Growing up Japanese and shamed for being gay, Dai has become a confident resilient man today
Being a ‘good gay boy', I was tested every six months for HIV and STIs, which in retrospect seemed quite strange as I was almost your quintessential ’40-year-old virgin.’
One rainy evening, I sat in an a[TEST] clinic on Oxford Street in Sydney stunned and frozen from shock. It was not from the cold.
“Oh, you don’t need that.” This was the reply from my family GP when I asked for a HIV test for the first time. He was our family doctor.
It was a bit of a surprise when she leaned across the table, held my hand and said “I’m sorry to tell you that you’ve tested HIV positive.”
About 10 per cent of people living with HIV in Australia are women, yet we remain relatively invisible.
I know of more than one young heterosexual woman who on asking their GP for an HIV test was told “oh you don’t need that” or “why?”